Just thinking… If a significant other says “your special ” but keeps you a secret…then you’re really not special you’re a secret. I’ve been there done that and thought it was enough for me and I could accept it. Truth is it nearly destroyed me and my relationship with God. It made me realize I evidently wasn’t Special enough to myself. So whether married, in a relationship or considering I suggest you weigh it and ask yourself a rhetorical questions…is it worth it.